It is all very exciting that your ex is showing you a little bit of interest and you can tell there is flirting going on, it is fine to hold on to hope but avoid racing on ahead. Are you asking yourself does my ex want to get back with me?

These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things, take your time to enjoy the moment. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. There are lessons to be learnt there is a reason you broke up, take things easy enjoy the moment.The writing is on the wall if your ex is giving you ideas that they are wanting to get back together, then it is you playing hard to get in the first place that has led to the new renewed interest.That is why when this happens enjoy the flirting and the attention while at the same time a little distant is good.

Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. All sorts of emotions are coming into play including regrets from the past. If you are wondering does my ex want to get back with me the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.  They are evaluating the situation and being away from each other gives them the space to think clearly.

With an ex they sometimes toy with your emotions and just seeing how far they can push your buttons, to them it is just a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. Don’t jump the gun, it is important to focus on the now don’t read too deeply into the situation before you act on it. When they are thinking of the history you had together they are reliving different moments evaluating situations and thinking they weren’t all bad. And besides missing you they will be thinking with a smile on their faces the times you had together were often great!

This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering do I really want to get the ex back?, but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. I believe if you are a little aloof it will help keep your emotions in tact, if you go full steam ahead they will run for the hills.

Collect your thoughts, read and rebuild your fragile confidence at the moment and most important is to let them miss you just a little.If they call and we know that they will make an effort to keep the conversation light and defintely don’t get all deep and meaningful on the first meeting.

Gradually increase the time together this will then give them the opportunity to reconnect with you.